It’s good to clarify your relationship with someone, but can be scary too. Sometimes the unknown is less frightening than actual knowledge of the feelings of another. But there comes a time when it is very important, even vital, to seek feedback on a person’s feelings for you. Is it love, is it like, is it in love, is it lust, is it basically friendship or a romantic relationship. And is there potential for change in the nature of the relationship? Of course, sometimes people don’t know exactly what they feel, or they have mixed feelings, or they are determined to hide their feelings. Yet, I assert that clarity is very important in a significant relationship.